My toughest day in ministry…so far…
April 10th, 2007 | | Category: Asking Why Questions, Community | 4 Comments »
Most of you probably didn’t see the news story, but 2 girls were murdered in south Fulton County over spring break. One of the girls was the president of the student council at the middle school where I tutor weekly. In fact, she was a student in the home room next door to the one that I work in.
I got the call on Easter afternoon. The principal wanted me there at 8:30 the next morning to counsel with teachers and students. So, with no real counseling experience, I went, but I didn’t go alone. I was counting on the Holy Spirit to give me the words that I needed, and He did.
I spoke to three homerooms, including the home room of the girl that was killed. I tried to encourage them to think about the good things that their friend had taught them and to live out those things in honor of her. Then, I counseled a group of eight students that were having a rough time.
I have to say, yesterday might have been the hardest day I have ever had in ministry. I’m still drained. It’s hard to offer real comfort without being able to talk about the redemption that is found in Christ, but I had to walk that line between church and state carefully.
I guess I’m writing all of this to point out a few things:
- Being involved in the local community is crucial if you want to be able to offer support and encouragement during times of need.
- Counseling is less about formal training and more about listening to the Holy Spirit (not that formal training is bad).
- Sometimes to honor Jesus and serve our community we have to walk into places and situations that are not comfortable.
- Sometimes we ask why, but there is no good answer.
- Sometimes life sucks.
- We must press on.
